Found this at Shambhala Sun Online today and it made a lot of sense to me:
Cool Loneliness
Less Desire
Contentment
Avoiding Unnecessary Activities
Complete Discipline (stay in the present moment)
Not wandering in the world of desire
touch the chatter (thoughts) and let it go
You have to read the whole article for it to make sense, but it really helped me deal with the loneliness I’ve been feeling.